Sofi’s surprise Valentines message

Friday, March 06th, 2020

Sofi and John 2

How a full farmhouse English and a collection of vintage tractors became Sofi’s best Valentine’s Day gift – ever.

“My Muddy Matches experience is something I cannot explain” Sofi says, with an infectious smile that warms the coldest of early mornings. “The happiest, most memorable thing happened to me , and it was all thanks to the Muddy Matches dating site.”

It was Valentine’s Day 2019 and, despite having kept a low profile on the website – on and off – for over three years, Sofi decided to take another quick peek, just in case rural romance was waiting for her.

Call it an inkling, female intuition almost… after all, the power of Valentine’s Day brings out the expected hopefulness in the very best of us.

Except this time, this time Sofi was right to feel positive. Her inkling that ‘maybe, just maybe’ was in fact about to prove fruitful.

Sure enough, there in her inbox sat an unread message – and it had been sat there, craving attention, for over five months!

“It was John who sent the first message and he’d sent it back in October” Sofi recalls, “But with me being a busy horse owner, I hadn’t seen it before.”

That message, from 20 year old family farmer John, was about to reshape Sofi’s life.

“When I opened John’s message I had a look at his profile. It was his eyes and his beautiful smile that caught my eye.” Sofi recalls. “Now we’ve been together almost a year, we often talk about our first messages, and our first date a week later.”

After seven days of talking online, that initial meet had been to an Indian restaurant where the couple bonded over a love of curry but it’s another of the pair’s more muddy-oriented dates that sticks fondly in Sofi’s memory.

“One of my favourite first dates we had was on a Sunday morning. We went to a local pub for a full english breakfast which was followed by a country dog walk with my working spaniel Millie. This was very important to me as I had found someone with the same love for the outdoors as myself.”

“Now, every weekend is spent at Johns family farm, and of course Millie comes along too.”

Millie the spaniel has company of her own now with John and Sofi building up a collection of animals with a view to starting their own self sufficient farm later down the line.

“We often discuss our future plans,” Millie tells us. “We do plan to get engaged and married but the big goal for us is to build our own farm with lots of farm animals, dogs and tractors, in the middle of nowhere; right in the heart of the country.

“We have started with rescuing ex battery hens , followed by buying ducks and goats to keep us busy . They go alongside John’s sheep and rare breed Shetland cows.

“Then there’s Johns large collection of vintage tractors. We can’t forget his tractors” Sofi adds. “As well as the farm John and I spend some time together working at my mum’s livery yard, fixing fences and general maintenance of the stables.

But the couple’s countryside credentials are not limited to farm life.

“John and I class ourselves as country lovers. Even though we work on the farm and love it, our love for the outdoors goes beyond the farm gate.

“Every day we see each other we try our very best to get our walking with Millie – when spring / summer arrives there will be no stopping us exploring the beautiful countryside.

And as for inspiring others to take a fresh look at rural dating with Muddy Matches?
“To anyone who is unsure about joining Muddy Matches , I’d say take a leap over the farm gate and give it a go; your prince farmer could be waiting for you.”

(Just don’t leave it 5 months to reply to a life changing message!)