Reasons cat lovers make purrrfect life partners

Why should dog owners have all the fun? We explore what cat ownership can tell us about a person’s character in a relationship.

“I don’t want to end up as that single old spinster with only her cats for company”.

Strangely, cats have long been associated with long term singledom. At Muddy Matches, where the singles who date with us love all types of animals, it is exaggerated stereotype, fueled by films and literature, that doesn’t sit well.

Why do cat owners bring unwarranted red flags when dog owners are considered to make great life partners? In this dating advice blog, we explore what cat ownership can really tell us about a person’s likely character in a relationship.

There’s so much joy, comfort and fulfilment to be had. Here are plenty of reasons why cat lovers can make for just purrrfect life partners:

Independent Nature
Cats are well known for their independent nature and solitary behaviour, and cat lovers so often respect this characteristic. They understand better than most the need for personal space and alone time which can be beneficial too in a human relationship. They are less likely to be possessive or clingy, allowing their partners to explore their own interests.

Compassion
Cat lovers often possess a strong sense of compassion and empathy. Their affection for their feline companions can translate well into connections with humans as well. They understand the importance of nurturing and know the value of emotional support.

Playfulness
Cats have a playful nature and cat lovers love to share in this joy. Whilst human relationships will take more than a ball of wool, plastic mouse of scratching post to find entertainment, a cat lovers’ appreciation for small moments of fun and humour can inject boundless light-heartedness and spontaneity int their relationship.

Highly attentive
Cat lovers are often attuned to their pets’ needs and are quick to respond to any signals to provide necessary care and attention. This attentiveness can relate well into two-legged romantic relations, making them proactive partners who can well read a room, both emotionally and physically.

Low maintenance companionship
Cats are relatively low-maintenance pets, especially when compared to dogs, and require less fuss and attention to them occupied. They have their own mind, according to pet behaviour specialists. So, cat lovers often have a sense of self-sufficiency and can maintain a balanced lifestyle without the pressures of dog walks to consider. It frees up more time and energy to devote to partners.

Patience
Cats can be unpredictable creatures, requiring patience and learning to build a bond with them. Their owners develop these qualities, often subconsciously, over time, and could effortlessly extend them to human relationships. This makes for patient listening, rational thought processes and an understanding of behaviour that is a little out of the norm.

Laid back
The presence of a cat has been shown to reduce stress and promote a laid-back lifestyle. It’s not quite care-free but relaxation is always welcome when it comes to proving a safe haven for a partnership to bloom in. Cat lovers bring a calming influence into their relationships, creating a soothing, often reassuring vibe.

Resilience
Cats are well known for their adaptability and resilience – and cat lovers often share these qualities (even if it doesn’t extend to them having nine lives). Science says they can handle change and navigate challenges with grace, logic and flexibility which bodes well for riding out the ups and downs in a relationship.

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